Depression Therapy

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How do I know if I am depressed? 

Often, depression can be self-diagnosed. Individuals know that they aren’t feeling like themselves. There is often a pervasive feeling of sadness. They may feel tired, achy, lack motivation, want to be alone, find themselves lashing out at family and friends, having crying spells or struggling to function at school/work. Everyone’s experience of depression can be different. Here are some things to look out for: 

Common symptoms of depression include: 

*Crying spells 

*feelings of hopelessness 

*suicidal thoughts 

*lack of interest in things that the person used to enjoy

*isolating from family and friends 

*sabotaging relationships 

*Appetite disturbances (lack of appetite or increased appetite, sometimes with significant change in weight) 

*difficulty falling or staying asleep 

*early morning awakening or difficulty getting out of bed *fatigue during the day 

*feeling down on themselves 

*not showering or keeping home clean 

*feeling too tired to follow up on self-care 

*over use of substances

*irritability 

*rumination (going over negative subjects in their mind over and over) 

*feeling overwhelmed 

*difficulty concentrating 

*procrastination 

*negative thinking about themselves and others 

To meet criteria for a diagnosis of a depressive disorder, these symptoms must be present for at least two weeks. 

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How is depression treated by the depression therapists at Shift Counseling, PC? 

Initial Assessment

A thorough assessment of each client’s history is always the first step. Our therapists want to understand what your depression looks like. What do your symptoms are like? Has happened before? What situations contribute to depression? What helped in the past? And what has been tried that did not help? If this is your first time seeking treatment, that is OK, too. We can help you figure out where to start. 

Development of a Treatment Plan

After the initial assessment comes the development of the treatment plan. This is where you work with your therapist to decide what your goals for treatment are. Where do you want to start? What methods you would like to use? Treatment plans are flexible and not set in stone. Our therapists understand that sometimes you are working towards one goal, and then life sends you a curve ball. If there is a need to pivot, our therapists are able to move with you. 

The Learning Process

Throughout the process our therapists are there to provide support. Help you talk through your issue. To help you learn skills for managing stressors on your own between sessions. We are focused on empowering our clients. The long term goal for treatment is to help clients eventually step down the frequency of their sessions. Sometimes you get to the point where they do not need therapy anymore.

This may takes just a few sessions. But sometimes it takes quite a while to reach this point. We can move as quickly or as slowly as you would like. We will periodically check in with you to see how you are feeling about your progress. 

What if therapy progress stalls? 

If you are feeling like you are not making the progress that you were hoping for. Or feeling like you are not quite on the right path, please mention this to your therapist. This is actually really helpful feedback and our therapists are glad to hear how clients are feeling about their progress.

We are not going to be angry or frustrated with you. This as an opportunity to explore needs, and fine tune our approach. These conversations are usually quite fruitful and often improve therapy outcomes. 

How can CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) help with the treatment of depression? 

CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, usually involves education about the ways that negative thoughts (cognitive distortions) influence mood. The way negative mood influences behavior. Also, how behavior influences thinking and mood.

Unfortunately, getting yourself unstuck from a negative mood cycle is not as easy as wishing things would be different. Using CBT, clients start to understand their patterns of negative thinking (cognitive distortions), and get more clear about what types of negative thoughts lead to depressive moods, they can also learn to challenge these negative thoughts.

Gaining Objectivity by Learning to Zoom Out

A big part of CBT is learning to zoom out and get more objective about difficult situations. “Just because you think or feel it doesn’t mean it is true”- this approach is about recognizing and challenging emotional reasoning. This approach is not about invalidating clients, or thinking that every bad mood can be solved by simply “being positive”, it is about helping people see difficult situations differently and getting unstuck by decreasing the impact of emotional reasoning. 

Building Rapport with Your Depression Therapist

Rapport with the therapist is essential during this process, and our therapists understand that letting go of old ways of thinking about stressors is hard. Throughout the process of challenging cognitive distortions, the therapist is carefully monitoring the client’s responses and making sure that they are not pushing too hard, too fast, or challenging negative beliefs that actually feel true. The changes must feel right and real to truly have a positive impact on the client’s symptoms. 

Learning to Recognize Behavior Patterns

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Another key part of CBT involves recognizing behavioral patterns. As the clinician and client explore client responses to difficult situations together, the clinician also helps the client recognize the ways they have been coping with negative feelings is not helping, and helps the client identify different ways of coping.

Now the client is becoming more empowered as they have a full understanding of these cycles, and what parts of the cycle they can change. The client recognizes that they have options and choices. The client begins to feel unstuck. They realize they don’t have to keep dealing with problems the same way all of the time and feeling the same way all of the time. 

Let’s look at an example of a common type of client complaint that can be addressed with CBT: 

Making Assumptions

Efren gets a new job and is feeling insecure about his performance. He is not getting feedback from his boss, and he assumes that he is not doing a good job. His parents were often critical when he was growing up and did not tend to praise him when he had done something well, so he has a core negative belief about himself of, “I am a failure.”

The Cycle of Depression

If Efren thinks that he is not doing a good job, Efren feels discouraged and hopeless. When he feels discouraged and hopeless, Efren tends to shut down; he avoids his boss and co-workers, overthinks things, and procrastinates on his work. This pattern of behavior leads to diminished performance and the cycle continues. 

Now Efren is beginning to experience anxiety, in addition to depression. Efren is expecting that if he hears from his boss, it is going to be negative feedback because he knows he hasn’t been working very efficiently. He feels frustrated with himself for not doing more, and resentful of his boss for expecting so much from him.

Efren starts to fear that he will never get out of this cycle and he will get fired. He might even start to call off of work because of a desire to avoid his anxiety and then he falls even farther behind. The truth is that if this cycle continues, Efren might get fired or quit his job because of his negative thinking, but this type of outcome is often avoidable. 

How could this scenario play out differently with the support of a therapist? 

Starting Treatment with a Depression Therapist

Efren starts therapy with chief complaints of depression, low self-esteem, and struggles with his work performance. During the assessment, his therapist notices that Efren reported that his parents were often critical and did not give much positive feedback, so it makes sense that Efren often assumes the worst about himself.

The therapist also notices that Efren seems especially sensitive to criticism, and he tends to assume that others are thinking negatively about him, even when there is no evidence to support this conclusion. The therapist also picks up on behavioral patterns of overthinking and avoidance.

After educating Efren about cognitive distortions, the therapist shares their insights about Efren’s negative thinking patterns and ineffective behavioral patterns. 

Identifying Different Ways of Thinking

Efren’s therapist starts with helping him identify different ways of thinking about his lack of feedback from his boss.

*It is possible Efren’s boss is not saying anything about Efren’s performance because everything is mostly OK.

*Efren’s boss may not be used to giving feedback when things are going well, and instead is focused on fixing problems. This issue doesn’t have anything to do with Efren personally.

*Maybe Efren’s boss is just busy and hasn’t had a chance to evaluate Efren’s performance.

Efren’s therapist helps Efren recognize that instead of assuming the worst and shutting down, it would be more helpful to approach his boss to talk about his performance. 

Applying What Is Learned in Therapy

Efren and his boss schedule a time to discuss his performance and he gets some positive feedback, as well as some areas that he could improve on. Efren’s therapist helps him see that having areas that need improvement does not mean that Efren is not doing a good job, it just means that he started a new job and having a learning curve is normal. Efren starts to see what he is doing well, and also starts to get less defensive about the areas of his performance that need improvement. 

Through this experience, Efren learns that it is better to gather valid information than to assume the worst is true in all scenarios. Efren has also learned some effective communication techniques, and has learned to be more proactive about approaching a boss when he is feeling unsure.

Positive Outcomes From Counseling for Young Adults with Depression in Chicago

Efren learns even if feedback is not 100% positive, that does not mean he is a failure. By starting the conversation about his needs, Efren develops a better relationship with his boss and co-workers. Efren’s boss appreciates that Efren spoke up about his concerns and has been responsive to the feedback given. Efren feels empowered to address challenging situations and ends up being more successful in his career in the long run. 

Because Efren is losing less time to negative coping patterns such as avoidance and overthinking, he has more time to engage in healthy coping skills, such as exercise, or participating in activities he really enjoys. Efren spends more time with peers, and coming into these interactions with improved self-esteem helps Efren be more outgoing. Efren is no longer isolating, and instead is building a positive peer support network. 

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What about when negative thoughts are not actually cognitive distortions?

The reality is that negative experiences are part of our world, and not every negative thought is a cognitive distortion. We often hear from clients who are trying hard to manage their mood by thinking positively, but then confess that they feel like they are gaslighting themselves . While our therapists are motivated to help clients find a positive outcome, we also recognize the value in holding space for negative emotions.

We understand that pushing for a positive outcome too quickly can sometimes be counter-productive. For some people, finding a space to talk through and get validation of their negative feelings is a very important step in their recovery, and this part of the process cannot be skipped over. 

Distinguish the Difference Between Fact and Fiction

A skilled therapist can help clients distinguish when the reality of a situation may have some negative truth to it. However, even in these situations, cognitive behavioral therapy can still be helpful when the therapist recognizes and validates the client’s negative feelings. Sometimes even when a negative thought may be true, it may be partially true and not completely true. Or, the negative thought may be true sometimes but not all of the time.

Even if a client’s negative thought about a situation is grounded in reality, therapists can help clients recognize the ways they are responding to this unfortunate truth, and make some decisions about if these responses are helpful or not. If the current responses are not helpful, a therapist can help the client figure out different responses that might bring a different outcome. Recognizing what you are in control of and what you are not in control of is key. 

What if a client is already aware of cognitive distortions, is already using healthy coping skills, and is still feeling depressed?

CBT is a great therapeutic modality, but it is not right for everyone. Some other evidence-based strategies utilized by Shift Counseling, PC therapists include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness, and EMDR therapy.

ACT and Mindfulness can be helpful when a client chooses to address their depression by accepting current challenges, recognizing that these challenges are temporary, practicing staying in the current moment, and learning to be more compassionate with themselves and others. Saima Shaik is trained in ACT therapy and Mindfulness. 

EMDR therapy can help when depression is a part of the client’s experience of PTSD or when it is the result of “little t” trauma (trauma that does not involve intense, acute, life-threatening experiences, but instead involves chronic struggles such as relational issues, chronic health issues, etc.) EMDR therapy can help people identify and process unresolved “little t” trauma that may be contributing to symptoms of depression. Our EMDR trained therapists are Noel Cordova and Rebecca Malley Fitzgerald.  

What about using medication to help treat depression?

Sometimes medication is helpful, but it is not always necessary. At Shift Counseling, PC, our approach is medication neutral- If a client is interested in trying medication services in addition to therapy, we fully support this. If not, that is OK, too.

The only time we might strongly encourage someone to use medications is if their symptoms are so severe that they are having a hard time taking care of themselves, or their behavior is putting themselves or others in danger. Everyone’s road to wellness is different. Using medication does not mean that a person is not trying hard enough in therapy or not doing enough to manage their symptoms between sessions. 

We do not believe in shaming people for using or not using medications. We understand that mental health issues have a variety of root causes including genetics, differences in brain structure, previous trauma history, and current contributing factors. Our staff members cannot prescribe any medications, but we can provide referrals to local providers who can help with this service for those who are interested. 

Young Adults with Depression

Young Adulthood is a time of great turmoil. Even if a client is lucky enough to come from a home where they received support and affirmation from their family, they are still going through difficult experiences that will challenge them. How a Young Adult gets through these experiences can define how they see themselves now and later in life. Much like trust, self-esteem is earned, not given. Young adults deserve our compassion and encouragement so they can begin to see themselves as capable. 

Young Adults are inherently novices in many areas of their lives, so they approach many challenges with a sense of inferiority.

Many Young Adults don’t feel good enough, even if this is not objectively true. Even the smartest and strongest Young Adults will fail sometimes. The therapists at Shift Counseling, PC recognize the unique challenges Young Adults face, and can help clients recognize their own strengths, reframe mistakes as learning experiences, and overcome failures.

Begin Counseling for Young Adults with Depression in Chicago

Getting started with a depression therapist is easy. Our North Riverside, IL counseling practice is convenient to multiple areas of Chicagoland including Riverside, La Grange Park, Brookfield, Broadview, and more. If you’re ready to begin, simply follow these steps:

  1. Reach out to schedule an initial therapy consultation.
  2. Begin working with a skilled, depression therapist.
  3. Take back your life and thrive!

Other Services Offered in Chicago, IL

Shift Counseling, PC specializes in treating young adults with mental health concerns with a variety of techniques. We offer PTSD and Trauma Therapy, Young Adult Focused Therapy, and Anxiety Therapy online or in person.

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